I guess that's probably the result of the Internet, 2 Girls 1 Cup makes everything before look tame.

The most shocking fantasies were accompanied but what I thought to be fairly superficial comments, if any at all.Sure, some of the stories now seem a bit dated but nevertheless, the overall feeling one gets is that there are so many men trapped in deeply unsexually satisfying relationships.

It doesn't have to be about exploring their own or their partner's (or anyone else's) psychology, or their own (or anyone else's) relationship dynamic in any way, or about communicating with their partner (or other people communicating with each other) through physical intimacy at all.Anyhow, the book is ok if you're lonely on a weekend and want to pretend you're doing something intellectual while keeping yourself company. I go back to this book time and time again, not to turn me on, but to give me a deeper understanding of male sexuality. It probably says something terrible about me that I find the men's sex fantasies in *Men in Love* much more offensive and about six times more arousing than the women's sex fantasies in *My Secret Garden.

Even these fantasies, in a twisted way, were usually still focused on the woman's consent and pleasure. and forget her, their friendship and feelings of masculinity somehow reinforced at the woman’s expense. I might have been able to finish it if it were around 200 pages, but at 472 pages, it just becomes tiresome and gross, regardless of the psychobabble explanations on the side.To calculate the overall star rating and percentage breakdown by star, we don’t use a simple average. They provide contact with an element the inventor, consciously or not, knows he needs to assert himself as fully male. This flies in the face of the growing evidence that sexual identity is something determined long before a child is even born. I couldn't have known this except after the fact, but in all the other chapters I could have just read Ms. While the book shows that sexual longing and desire cross a large spectrum of identities, that doesn't mean people stop being what their identity is.