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You’ve already taken the first step just by searching for and reading this article. The worst thing you can do right now is nothing. The best thing is to speak to a therapist. The next best thing is to implement everything you’ve learned in this article by yourself. The choice is yours.

But by being authentic and honest about your struggles instead of covering them up or avoiding failure, you create a rich opportunity to meaningfully connect with other people.They may also feel like they are in direct competition with their partner to ensure they are a “good” partner. Too many people try to muddle through and do their best to overcome issues that they never really get to grips with. If it’s at all possible in your circumstances, therapy is 100% the best way forward. An overachiever is looking to assure themselves that they are good or worthy. They do that by accomplishing things. You can be someone that gets things done, a lot of things done, without undermining your relationships or ruining your health.

An overachiever may associate their achievements with their sense of self-worth. They may feel like they aren’t good enough if they aren’t earning whatever they’re receiving, even if it’s not relevant.

The relationships that crop up from being honest and authentic will be far deeper and more genuine than the superficial ones you’ve developed out of playing to others’ expectations. Relationships require work to succeed. That work ranges from emotional management, dealing with the difficulties of life, getting the housework done, and so much more. The overachiever is continuously looking forward to potential problems and projects that are coming their way. Sometimes, the overachiever will take on small or meaningless work just to provide that additional boost to themselves. They may look for inconsequential work so they can just get something done and accomplish it, whether it’s their responsibility or not. The overachiever may find themselves regularly keeping score with their partner about who does what.